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I NEED HELP FINANCIALY

GLUBBY 2011 started this conversation
Dec 23, 2011

HELLO FIRST OF ALL I AM VERY HAPPY TO BE ALIVE TODAY. I WAS DIAGNOISE WITH CANCER MARCH 2011. I WENT THRU KIMO AND RADIATION UNTIL JUNE 2011 NOW I AM IN REMISION. DURING THIS SCARE OF MY LIFE MY HUSBAND LEFT ME AND MY ONE YEAR OLD FOR ANOTHER WOMAN  AND HER TWO CHILDREN. HE PAID ALL THE BILLS WHEN HE LIVED HERE AND WHEN THIS HAPPENED I WASN'T ABLE TO KEEP UP WITH THE BILLS AND HE WOULDN'T EVEN HELP.  MY MORGAGE IS BEHIND 7 MONTHS NOW AND I NEED HELP. I ACTUALLY GOT A JOB OCTOBER 26, 2011 PART TIME SEASONAL HELP BUT THATS HELPING ME GET PERSONALS, GARBAGE PAID WATER PAID, GAS FOR OUR CAR, AND THINGS FOR MY BABY. YES THEY GAVE ME LINK FOOD STAMPS FOR FOOD BUT THAT IS TO FEED US I NEED HELP WITH MORGAGE AND UTILITYS. IF ANYONE WILL HELP ME PLEASE LET ME KNOW SO I DON'T GET KICKED OUT MY HOUSE. SOMEONE TOLD ME TO PUT MY HOUSE ON THE MARKET SO IT WILL STALL THEM FOR KICKEN US OUT OF OUR HOUSE UNTIL I AM ABLE TO GET HELP OR A FULL TIME JOB THAT WILL GET ME CAUGHT  BACK UP TO DATE BUT THAT IS SCARING ME BECAUSE THEY STILL CAN KICK US OUT ANY DAY NOW AND WE HAVE KNOW WERE TO GO. PLEASE ANYONE WHO CAN HELP US PLEASE LET ME KNOW 

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DALIAZMA
Dec 23, 2011
They can't kick you out if it is up for sale. Even if it takes a year. My mom was 1 day away from the bank taking her house. She could not pay the mortgage the whole time it was up for sale, approx. 9 mos. The bank did not kick her out, they wanted their money. She finally sold it for enough to pay them back and 60,000 left over. She moved up North bought a small lot with a mobile home on it, up by Sequioa National Forest. Now she lives mortgage free and property tax is cheap because its up in the high desert. She had no idea she could do that and thought for sure she would lose the house but I told her to at least try to sell it. As for the man (not) that put you in that situation, Did you turn him in to social services? They should go after him and make him pay child support and you may even get a small amount of what they garnish his paycheck for. They don't like dead beat dads. I wish you the best and be strong, he didn't deserve you anyway.
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